Don't love the idea of love.

If you love the idea of being in love then, you are not in love with the person whom you are with but with the idea of live itself.

Don't love the idea of love, if you do that then you will create a mirage of the person whom you are with which is false.

That isn't what you want. What you want is the real memories with a real person.
Create memories by loving what is real.