A L L C O R R E C T L Y

Why do we feel like we need to punish ourselves? Why do we feel that the right decision will be a tough one? Sometimes the best decisions are the easiest ones to make Why don’t we think that we deserve something good? Why do we think that we have to fight for everything? Why do we assume that life can’t be easy? Why do we pretend that the universe is always trying to make our lives difficult? Is it really the universe doing all this? Or is it just us? Is life easy? Is it as simple as this. Just have faith, be kind, fall and rise and just keep breathing.

 Nothing ever breaks. It ends because it wasn’t meant to last forever. Your love was good while it lasted. But it wasn’t meant to last a lifetime. You thought that it was eternal but this isn’t the first time that you were wrong. It was the best thing that ever happened to you. Until the next best thing comes along. How is that possible you ask? Well, did you ever imagine it being so good the first time? So why can’t it happen again. Now you have experienced the impossible. Now you have seen the inevitable. If it happened once when you didn’t ever believed in it then why can’t it happen again when you do believe in it. You do believe, don’t you? Have faith. Always have faith.

It's like Hasan Minhaj decided to speak about his life and made it funnier, made it sensible, made us happier, made us understand his way of looking at life as an outsider and made some money of it (deserving so). Recently watched this stand up special again because parts of it kept on ringing in my mind again and again. One thing that really stood up for me was the fact that no one person is a spokesperson for his or her community. I mean who even elected that person right? So stop judging a bunch op people by just one of them. See them as a whole. Their good and bad. And then understand why they do what they do. Maybe you won't end up hating everyone who oppose your views then. Another thing that Hasan says is what he learned because of being an Indian American friend is that you need to get over the fear of WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY, because people will always say something that will hurt you and put you down but you can't let that stop you. My favorite quote...

Sometimes you will have just the absolute worst days of your life. Sometimes you will just experience the worst moments of your life. Sometimes you will feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. Sometimes you will see no hope or no point in hoping. Sometimes you will doubt your faith. Sometimes you will question everything that you have learnt and believed. Sometimes you will feel like a dementor has come and sucked all the happiness out of your life, and there is no Patronus charm for that. And that is because life isn't supposed to be all okay. It need not be all correct. Everything won't be just fine all the time. If it was you'll die of boredom before anything else. The purpose of life is moving on and letting go. Moving on form the past to the future, by letting go of the people that were with you and couldn't be in the future. You can't control other people's mind but you can guide yours. Sometimes the darkness will seem to last forever but it ...