Stop judging people. Stop assuming things about other people. You think you know them but you don't. How can you, when you barely know yourself. When you have lived with yourself since you were born, don't you surprise yourself sometimes. That's beacuse you don't know yourself completely. So how can you know others. Start giving them the benefit of the doubt. Try to understand why they are doing what they are doing. Show a rare human quality of empathy. Listen, communicate, respect. But don't judge. Your time can be spent doing much better things. . .