Why that person is doing what he or she is? What could be the reason for it? Where is that person coming from? How that person's upbringing has been? Why is that he or she is different form you? Why is that your thoughts don't align? Why is that your meaning of happiness is different? Why is he/she is who he/she is? Why? Just ask why. And then understand, empathize, relate, treat them equally, don't judge them at their weakest, see their strengths. Show them the peaceful way. Be kind to them. Help them using your strengths. You will feel more powerful than ever.